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Planning for your child's future, especially when it comes to major life events like weddings, education, and milestones, requires thoughtful financial preparation. We start by addressing the financial considerations for weddings, outlining potential costs and smart strategies to ensure her special day is both memorable and manageable. Next, we compare 529 plans and UTMA accounts, providing a clear analysis to help you decide the best approach for funding your child’s education and future aspirations. Lastly, we share practical insights and personal experiences on saving for college, highlighting the importance of early planning and consistent contributions to alleviate future financial stress. These guides are designed to equip you with the knowledge and tools necessary for comprehensive financial planning, ensuring you or your child’s future is secure and prosperous.
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Having A Wedding To Plan For?

Weddings are celebrations.  For most of history and still applicable in many cultures today, weddings were and are arranged for alliance purposes, to forge a bond between two families or two countries.

Entire towns would spend several days celebrating weddings with lavish meals, negotiated gifts, and prayers for fertility. In the middle ages, jewelry and luxurious attire became a sign of wealth and societal standing. Wedding bands began to be exchanged. In the late 1800’s, more and more weddings were held for love. Dating really didn’t begin until after WWII when the automobile gave young couples the freedom to sample without a parental chaperone. In 1840, Queen Victoria of Great Britain wore a white wedding dress and began the most recognizable aspect of the modern wedding; a white wedding dress. Many a young girl has imagined what their wedding day would be like and a beautiful white wedding dress is essential. The other recognizable aspect of weddings is that they’ve become big business. According to “The Knot”, the average American wedding costs over $35,000. In today’s world, while the girl’s family is still expected to sponsor the wedding, it is not unusual for the groom’s family to help pay for the wedding.
I think most guys approach their own wedding with a “just give me the time and place and I’ll be there attitude”. Smart guys keep this attitude to themselves. Weddings are for brides, mothers, maids-of-honor, and little flower girls. Smart guys do not complain during the tuxedo fitting or during the pre-engagement party, the engagement party, the pre-wedding rehearsal, or the wedding rehearsal. As a father, I know what the costs could be and while I will never verbally complain about the cost of the wedding, that doesn’t mean that I can’t grimace or grit my teeth during the process.
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Here’s what you need to know. $35,000 today is $47,000 ten years from now and $63,000 twenty years from now. To save $47,000 in ten years, you’ll need to set aside $4,000 annually or $320 per month. To save $63,000 in twenty years, you’ll need $2,100 each year or $172 per month. If you are simply going to surrender to these costs, go to the Living Ledger Financial planning module and enter the appropriate amount in the Future Expenses section.
However, if you want to affect the future costs of the wedding, you need to take some pre-steps in order to reduce the future costs of this wedding. Now as a father, I want to celebrate at the wedding so there is a fine line between promoting a City Hall wedding and nice church wedding with a modest reception. Here is a sample of where the largest costs lie.

While there will be further direction on how to realize your dreams, the one thing you cannot ignore is writing your dreams down and posting it where you (and your partner if there are two of you) can see it every day. Your dreams are more likely to become reality if it becomes a central theme in your life.

Saving For College, A House Or Both?

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Parents universally want the best for their children. As soon as your child is born, you imagine different aspects of their childhood; the picture with Santa Claus, school plays, their first home run, eighth grade awards, drivers training, and their high school prom and graduation. Beyond that, the future is in their hands and you want to make sure they have the resources to graduate college, perhaps put a down payment on a house, buy a car, and / or get married. Giving them a leg up can also help reduce your own long term tax bite.

Choosing the proper savings vehicle is not that difficult. It really comes down to choosing between a 529 College Savings Plan and a Uniform Transfer to Minors Account (“UTMA”). While there is nothing to prevent you from choosing both, let me explain the differences:

• 529 Plans are designed specifically for education savings. These accounts are primarily utilized to pay for College tuition and living expenses but can be also be used for up to $10,000 each year in high school expenses. Contributions grow tax-free and withdrawals are tax-free if used for qualified education expenses.

• UTMA / UGMA Accounts are intended for broader gift-giving purposes than just education. Recently, UTMA accounts now, for all intents and purposes, have been merged with Uniform Gifts to Minors (“UGMA”) Accounts and while some states still contain some differences, these accounts essentially have the same provisions. These accounts can be used for education but your child beneficiary will control their assets at age 18 – 21, depending on the state.

Tax Advantages:

• 529 Plans: Contributions are not federally tax deductible but may be tax deductible in your state (check with your state's tax revenue authority). Earnings grow tax-free (both federal and state) and withdrawals are tax-free for qualified education expenses.

• UTMA Accounts: Earnings are taxed each year to the minor child, with a tax exemption from the first $2600 in earnings in 2024. Essentially, if your child earns 5% on their funds, you won’t pay any taxes on balances up to $52,000. However, earnings over $2600 per year (indexed) are taxed at the parent’s tax rate until the child turns age 19. After age 18, all taxes flow through to the minor.

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Financial Aid Impact:

• 529 Plans: Considered a parental asset, typically has a smaller impact on financial aid eligibility compared to a UTMA/UTMA account.

• UTMA Accounts: Considered an asset of the child, which can potentially reduce their eligibility for financial aid.

Control And Ownership:

• 529 Plans: You typically retain control over the account (even after age 18 or 21) and can change beneficiaries (within family) if needed.

• UTMA Accounts: Once the minor reaches the age of majority (typically 18 or 21 depending on the state), they gain full control over the account and can use the funds for anything.

Investment Flexibility:

• 529 Plans: You may invest in a wide variety of investment options, though there are more restrictions than an UTMA account. Typically, parents invest in target benefit funds where the target date is when your child reaches age 19 or 20. Because of the potential tax at the parents rate if earnings exceed a certain amount, zero coupon bond funds may provide an investment opportunity after the 529 balance reaches $50,000.

• UTMA Accounts: Allow for a wider range of investment options, similar to a taxable brokerage account.

In summary, you should choose a 529 plan if your primary goal is saving for education (for one or several children) and you want to retain control over the funds past age 18 or 21. Choose the UTMA account if your child is not “school inclined” or if you do not want to be restricted to just using the funds for a college education.

If you’re unsure, do both!

Saving For Your Child’s Future

On the eve of my son’s college graduation, I was feeling very proud that he developed diligence and discipline necessary to graduate on time. My wife and I had planned for this moment and it was happening. The only thing left was to make sure his mortarboard didn’t display some embarrassing quote that I would have to explain away for years. (Fortunately, he didn’t wear a mortarboard; choosing instead to don his school’s baseball cap with the tassel attached from that button on top.) Time had compressed so much in just a short time but a little dedication and probably some help from his friends was about to produce a walk across a stage, isolated hoots and hollers from the crowd, and a diploma. Don’t trip now!
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It seems like yesterday when we took this little child with perfectly smooth skin home from the hospital. Initially, my son didn’t need me and I was frustrated until I realized that I lacked the necessary equipment to satisfy his basic needs. Oh, I could change the diaper and rock him to sleep but my son really didn’t care about me. I was just a conduit until he could suck the life out of his mother. I couldn’t blame him of course but the monotony of changing his diaper had worn off. I wanted more. This kid wouldn’t even smile for me unless it was gas. Here I am, responsible for his future, and he’s already an ungrateful teenager. Finally, about when he turned 3 months, I lightly tickled his belly and for the first time ever, he smiled at me! It wasn’t ear to ear but I know it was a smile. I was full of myself but then about a minute later, I could hear a grunt like he was already practicing for his teenage years, when the telltale rear end emission occurred and my short lived happiness was dashed. No smile, just poop. Back to the bassinette! I tossed the soiled diaper into that baby powder smelling diaper pail, lifted his legs up and placed a new diaper, the second to last diaper in the last box of diapers that we had received from the baby shower, under his smooth bottom. Before I could fold the flap over his frontside, my son decided that he had to singlehandedly put out a fire… on the ceiling… and on the dresser… and on the lamp… and on my shirt. I attempted to tether his hose but that just sprayed the little guy and after Niagara Falls had been emptied, I looked his chin dampened face and… nothing. Not a smile over what he had done. Just a poker face. Nothing to see here except pee drippings from the ceiling. Ho hum. “Hey, big guy, can you put another diaper on? I’m feeling a draft.” I cleaned him off as best I could, put him in his crib, then cleaned the room as best I could and realized that we had run out of diapers.
Realizing that I could be exposing the remainder of the house to flood damage, I raced to the store for a new supply and was hit with the shock of paying $20 for about 50 diapers! Holy literal Crap, these were expensive! Then it hit me. Kids are expensive! First diapers, then Little League, a broken arm, then college and then…. aah gee. College!

Let's Talk About School Saving

College costs were overwhelming. As I climbed into bed, the cost of raising this child had me contemplating a budget, something that I had always planned on but never achieved. Now I was worrying about his college? What about a wedding? Do parents have to pay for sons’ weddings or is that still a dowry thing? My mind was adding up the commas. I needed a second job. How much do child models make? (Not much!) Do they still have indentured servitude? How am I going to get this kid through college?
Somehow I managed to sleep but woke in the morning without answers. I began explaining the prior night’s event to my wife and she didn’t flinch. Now I knew where the kid got his stone face. Finally, she deadpanned, “I knew something happened. There was dried yellow spots on the baseboards, on the bassinette, in a lot of places. After feeding him, I looked around the room and I just figured that you both were drinking last night.” She then broke into laughter and teased me with, “I can just imagine you…” and “How did he get it on the lamp?”
I then stated that we need to start saving for his college education and my wife interrupted by saying, “I’ve already set up a savings account for him. We’ve got $600 in his account. We should probably look into a 529 plan.”
At that moment, last night’s worries vanished and I knew we would be okay. A few weeks later, we sat down and planned his future, first by analyzing tuition costs and using a future value calculator. Here’s what we did:
I set out to compute the annual amount of contributions needed to meet a four year college experience for our precious daughter. Now when I was computing potential costs, I was looking at college tuition rates back in the early 2000’s and estimating funds needed in 2020. But I’ll do it for you as of 2024 and 2041 so as not to confuse you.
Colleges and universities are divided into four types of tuition: Private, In State Public, Out of state Public, and Junior College. There are also trade schools which provide concentrated courses on auto maintenance, computer technology, home construction, HVAC repair, Cosmetology, etc.
I looked at several different websites that compare college tuition costs and fortunately, all of them were pretty close so I have referenced www.collegetuitioncompare.com.
I understand that it is somewhat difficult to determine the amount of tuition for a 1 year old but let’s try to help you out.

First of all, many parents are comfortable with having their child go to their own alma mater. The school was good for you so it will be good for them. If you and your spouse went to UCLA and University of Illinois, then a public university is probably a tuition range you should consider. If one of you went to a private liberal arts school, then might want to bump up your potential college savings goal.

Therefore, beginning soon after birth, you should set up a savings program through a 529 Plan or UGMA account for that ultimate goal. 529 Plans and UGMA’s are explained in a separate article.

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By sixth or seventh grade, you should have a pretty good idea if your child is wicked smart, has an aptitude for a specific subject (science, math or acting) or may not be college material.  It’s generally easier to divine a career direction for a girl as early as age 12 but while some boys can show inklings of  career direction by age 15, don’t be surprised if your son enters college as “undeclared”.  Boys take longer to figure things out so don’t be surprised if your son leaves college as “undeclared” either.  At any rate, based on their aptitude and potential career interests, you may need to increase, decrease, or eliminate your annual savings to meet whatever new tuition goal you have.

So let’s examine how much you should contribute annually to meet your tuition and living expense goal.  The first thing you need to realize is that the tuition you pay 18 years from now will be a lot more than those amounts shown above.  College inflation has tripled in the last fifty years and has reached as much as 8 percent annually, but since the onset of COVID, college inflation has slowed to 3¼%.  (Incidentally this inflation coincides with the amount of student loan money available; as the federal government guarantees nearly $150 billion each year for students in college.)  Because students attending college are dropping each year, universities are not raising their tuition as much each year; expect this trend to continue.  I think it’s reasonable to assume a 3% college inflation rate for as long as the birth rate keeps dropping but living expenses will probably exceed the tuition increase so we’ll assume a 3½% increase in living expense inflation so given that, tuition, room and board in 18 years will be as follows:

Looking at these future tuition rates, you may react by examining that junior college option for two years or throwing up your hands and looking directly into indentured servitude.  But before you give up hope, let’s look at the couple who each went to public colleges.  In order to sufficiently fund a four year in-state public university, this couple would need to save $6,611 each year for 18 years in order to meet the tuition, room and board requirements for their child.  As long as you start early and are diligent with your savings, it’s not as bad as you think.

Given the fact that only 40% of college age children actually enroll in a four year college and even less actually finish with a degree, I would suggest saving 75% of expected costs because there is a chance that your child may not enroll in or even complete college.  If they do finish their education and need additional funds, the remaining costs needed can be attained through student loans.  Using the 75% guideline, the annual savings amount is reduced to $4,958 per month at a 5% earnings rate, an amount that is feasible for most couples.  If you are looking an out of state Public University or a Private College, the annual savings amount over 18 years is $6,824 (OOS Public) and $8,104 each year.  The key is starting early and using the time value of money in your favor.

At this point, all you need to do is enter your future college savings need sin the Living Ledger Financial planning module under College Expenses.

Now that I’m contemplating tomorrow’s graduation, I can offer some advice when your child is ready for college.  I know that you probably went to college but as an 18 year old, you were somewhat oblivious to the entire process but as a parent, it is excruciating.  While your child is looking at their first chance of freedom (as you were), you will be looking at things like safety and costs.  While your prodigy is trying to select a college based on red brick buildings or whether there is a climbing wall on campus, you will be undergoing a financial enema by completing a FAFSA form that will take a full day to complete and require no less than 45 verbal epithets.  While your kid is picking out dorm rooms, analyzing party potential, and wondering how to bring their bike, you are hiding all her low cut blouses, his Nintendo game console, and thinking of ways not to get the bike stolen.  (It WILL get stolen so make sure it’s a beat-up bike.)

I will say this.  Among the most enjoyable experiences in the college search process is visiting campuses with your child.  I would suggest visiting some campuses as a family and some with just one parent.  During this process, you will realize – and it sneaks up on you - that the child who once couldn’t tie their own shoes is now talking more like an adult than a whiny little kid and you know they’ll be okay.

If you plan ahead using the Living Ledger module and start your college savings early, the process will be much easier.

Living Ledger is primarily a financial planning tool, but it has so many other uses; after you create your initial profile, you have a living record of your assets that can be updated and used to determine savings needs for not only finances, but also your dreams. You can set your goals and “play around” with alternative strategies to consider lifestyle changes. Living Ledger helps you manage your financial life year by year, tracking your progress as you get closer to your goals, retirement and eventually manage for a smooth transition of your estate. Give it a shot!
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